If you've Amarillo who want fuck played before then all well and good, I'll join in at the deep end!
He must be a straight male who is respectful and open minded to the idea.
I'm married but experimenting with ENM. Open to exploring new areas of his sexuality and wanting to go places that he may have been unwilling to go before. Im 61 and I work to much, want to find someone in my are.
Not in a rush to get in bed.